A relationship is a two-way thing and it doesn't solely depend on one person. Maybe the girl likes someone else while being with you. It's also not entirely her fault I guess. You just didn't appeal enough to her or maybe she felt that the two of you aren't meant for each other actually and since she found someone better, you should be glad. I believe that everyone is like a puzzle piece. You cannot squeeze two pieces together what. Not only does it not fit, when you lift it up (with tribulations) it'll all fall down easily. One puzzle piece might seem like it fits with another, but it'll only work if u try and squeeze the puzzle and force it down. This is like changing yourself to suit the other person. I think this way, not only will the other party feel awkward (coz you're not being who you truly are), you yourself will also feel tired and sick of all these. You may love that person alot and do so much to change yourself, and at the end of the day, you find it pointless because you aren't who you are anymore. Friends also start leaving you, because you are not the friend that they knew and befriended before. So I believe you shouldn't change yourself for anyone, less you lose your self-identity.
Girls should learn to love themselves! Always think you are the prettiest/most gorgeous person in the world! :) Then you will feel better about yourself. Although you might not be, you might be fat, you might have pock-marked face and everything, but if your heart is beautiful, people you talk to will realise that you have something inside of you that makes you glow and shine beautifully. :D Don't look at ugly pictures of yourself and go, "That's me. I'm ugly." Girl, you gotta learn to turn it around and when you see nice pictures of yourself, then go "that's me!" Well, no one is a 10/10 beauty. At least be glad, you look like what you are, than be a super beauty and actually you're just hiding it by going for plastic surgery and all that. We have to be confident in the way we look. By being confident and feeling good about yourself, you will naturally be a happier and more cheery person. Rather than a person with low self-confidence and esteem. And your whole life is just to envy other people and wish you were them. Don't ever wish you were someone else, because you never know what other people might be going through that you're not. Learn to love how you look and live. :D
Alot of my friends like to laugh at fat people/ people of other colours. I think that's kinda sad. Racism is really a severe problem in Singapore. I mean like, everybody confirm know one racist joke. I know, they might sit on grass, might smell, might sing their songs aloud in the train/bus. But who are you to laugh at them? Who are you to say their race is to laugh at? And what's more, they didn't even laugh at us. They have more class, more poise and more elegance in my opinion. What if you were born into their culture and grew up like that? What if it was us who had to face the mockery? What if every where you go, people snigger behind your back? Would you like that? No, right? Of course no one likes to be made fun of every single day. I guess we all have to learn to respect one another and think of each other as equal and learn to get used to whatever Singapore has. Okay, I shall end abruptly because I have nothing more to say. Hahaha goodbye! And of course, ending with a pretty me. Hehehe.
P.S: I am not emo. I am just philosophical. :D
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